I have spent 27 years of my life believing that the death of a loved one is the most painful experience you ever have to go through. I remember that I used to weep for hours on just the fact that my parents may not live with me for whole my life. However, yesterday I had an epiphany that changed my whole perspective on pain.
After having a painful rather torturing fight with someone I love, I realized that it's not the death of a loved which is the most painful experience but the realization of the fact that the one person you love the most doesn't understand you.Well, I don't think I can give words to that pain but let me give it a try. It was just like a sharp mirror entering into my body after cutting my skin layers one after the other in a very slow motion.
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I am not exaggerating but I felt that my heart will stop beating any minute. The next thing I knew was that I was crying with loud voices. Luckily, no one saw me but if they did, they would have definitely thought that I have lost any of my loved ones to death. It was that moment when I realized that death is not that painful.
When someone dies, your mind consciously and subconsciously accept this fact because you know that there is nothing you can do to reverse the situation.The real pain is when your loved one is with you but still, you feel alone, you feel that no one in the whole world understands your situation. That is when you really feel the pain and it's not just a psychological pain but also a physical pain.
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I read somewhere that love gives pain and suffering but it also gives the courage to overcome that pain. Well, I don't fully agree with it. How can a feeling as beautiful as love become a cause of pain? My mind is still not ready to accept it. Well, it may be because just like the millions of other girls, I have spent my whole life watching romantic movies and thinking that one day my hero will come to rescue me.
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I read somewhere that love gives pain and suffering but it also gives the courage to overcome that pain. Well, I don't fully agree with it. How can a feeling as beautiful as love become a cause of pain? My mind is still not ready to accept it. Well, it may be because just like the millions of other girls, I have spent my whole life watching romantic movies and thinking that one day my hero will come to rescue me.
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